Meet Kiki DeLux

She Loves Her was born of my own life experience. At age 40, after being married to a man for 12 years, I realised I was queer and really needed to do something about it! My lady love journey was exhilarating and liberating. It was also hard, sad and lonely, mostly because I didn’t know anyone else like me. So I created She Loves Her, so that every other women who wants to start dating women can find the community and support I couldn’t. My dream is that one day every woman who dreams of being with a woman can enjoy that pleasure.

The 5 Pillars of

She Loves Her

You’re incredible

Our community welcomes every woman who is curious about exploring her desire for other women. There are no expectations or requirements for entry - all you need is the desire to get to know yourself better. Questioning? You’re welcome! Nervous? You’re welcome! Not sure where to begin? You’re welcome! Think you may be bi/pan/lesbian/ace? You’re welcome! We are you, and we can’t wait to meet you.

Age is no barrier

Here at She Loves Her we believe it’s never too late to have a new adventure, and we know that every stage of life is the perfect time to explore your sexuality.

Inclusivity is everything

We welcome all women, from every background and walk of life, regardless of how you identify. We have actively created this community to be kind, compassionate and inclusive, and we invite you to get involved and take part in creating the kind of community you want to be a part of.

Healing & joy is the point

All of our work is centred around creating and celebrating joy, especially for those who feel like they’re late to the party. We believe joy is our birthright and that it’s possible for us to claim it regardless of what has happened in our past.

Loving women is simply sensational

We love ourselves as women. We love our desire for women. We think being a woman who desires women is amazing. We love loving women.